When we ask “Where do I come from?” we’re not only asking about family history or culture. We’re asking about what makes us who we are today. Understanding origins helps us think about why we believe the things we do, how much of ourselves comes from our past, and how much we get to choose for the future. Identity isn’t just personal — it’s ethical. The way we define ourselves shapes the choices we make and the way we treat others. What makes you you?

Some parts of who we are are given: our families, genetics, birthplace, and culture. Other parts are chosen: our values, beliefs, and how we live our lives. Both matter. If we only focus on what’s given, we risk thinking our lives are fully determined for us. If we only focus on what’s chosen, we risk ignoring the deep roots and responsibilities we’ve inherited. The truth is, our identity comes from both — a mixture of what we’re handed and what we decide.